Why you want to find someone

January 22, 2018

Why you want to find someone, it’s because you really want to be with that person, or you just don’t want to be alone, or even worse – people tells you, you should find someone. No, the answer is no.


I was walking down the street last night after work, suddenly, some scenes into my head made me smile, which are some funny conversations between me and my ex happened in the daytime. The most wonderful thing is even you are alone, but some things still make you smile, when you happy, you two share happy together, when you are sad you two huddled together to comfort each other, he/she gives you soul pillar.

We all need connection. The very reason we’ve survived as a species is because we’ve learned to live interdependently. Humans are biologically wired to require love, validation and belonging and the longer we try to deny this for, the more miserable we’re going to make ourselves. Alone may be the new black, but it’s just as dreary a shade. So, we do need to fine someone anyway. No matter what kind of person are you, playboy, or introvert, you need to make friends with your heart, especially, when you meet someone especial. In this noisy and fickle world, it’s hard to find your ideal match, but you need to try it. Love is not finding someone to live with. It’s finding someone you can’t live without.